The Lip I've Been Into
YSL Rouge Volupté Shine Oil-In-Stick Lipstick #44 (or 1 is good too)
This is the best of both worlds type of product it's balm but also pigmented enough to be a lipstick. It's super sheer but you can build it up (which is super rare for a balm).
MAC lipliner in Subculture
I'm not a MAC girl, but they have the most color range than any other company I know. Most nude lipliners are made for darker skin tones (Laura Mercier, Bobbi Brown, Hourglass, literally every single makeup line aside from Urban Decay which is way to pink anyway). Subculture is a nude with neutral undertones that perfectly matches my natural lip color so I use it before and sometimes after the balm.
This is the only gloss you need. It reminds me of VS back in the day lip glosses, the suuuper sticky ones that lasted forever but this doesn't even feel uncomfortable. Its the dream gloss, makes your lips look like glass.